Usually she meets her true love in the next scene, right? But I have to ask, if this is just what women have to put up with from men because of the way they are wired (so you better get yours first), what do gay men do? We've all seen the scenes in movies where the men roll over and immediately go to sleep after orgasming, the woman staring at the ceiling. Granted, men have a much stronger refractory period than women do, and some men are very nearly incapacitated by oxytocin post-orgasm. There’s an overlooked implication in there that as soon as a man comes, sex is over. Some of the advice that floated around the internet in the wake of this study boiled down to the suggestion that in heterosexual relationships, a man should delay his orgasm until the woman has hers. Following the release of this provocative study, hundreds of articles appeared in the mainstream press to explain this so-called orgasm gap. This is according to a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior in 2017. This has got to change: straight women report fewer orgasms per sexual encounter than any other group - straight men, homosexual or bi men, and gay or bisexual women.
